Read about kimberlycun's entry on her night out with her mom to watch Batman. Before the movie, they decided to pamper themselves with some new clothes at a shop nearby (I am guessing here). She was pretty frustrated (and mad) when her mom did not pay for her two halterneck tops while at the sales counter. Her mom told her to buy those clothes with her own money. Naturally she was hurt and felt unloved. Not sure if she is still sulking now, but am sure she'll get over it.

This made me wonder when was the last time I actually asked my parents for money to buy anything. Ever since leaving university, I have never asked my parents for anymore money. In fact, I DO give money to my mom albeit not much and not consistently (not sure if any of you guys out there are doing this filial peity thing, but if you are not... tsk tsk tsk). Anyway, I DO reward my family with my share of my bonuses every year now.

Being born under the Chinese zodiac of the ever *cough* talented, *cough* perceptive and *ehem* handsome Horse, naturally I have a totally self-reliant and indepdendent streak. So this is my stand on money...

Using people's money = DEPENDENCE
Using own's money = SELF-EMPOWERMENT

Ok, so the lines above may not be some deep truth. But contemplate on it. Every time you purchased some item that you desire, was it from your own cash? If yes, did you feel the high sense of self-worth? The pride of achieving self-fulfillment via your very own means?

Sure, one of these days I will definitely seek my parents help for some financial assistance. But only when I know I do not have the capacity to fulfill those needs myself. I hate to do it but sometimes certain situations do demand it like when my parents knowing that their first son is getting married (What?! My son got girlfriend already meh?) or settling the downpayment for my house in KL. Well, neither has happened yet, so not need to worry.

Wished I had a more lucrative paying job, all the problems in the world sure can solve one... sigh.

But hey look on the bright side. At least, I am owning my first car fully supported financially by yours truly now.